How to reach our goals...

The big goals or obsessions, the dreams that we want to get in our life, something that we do as leading deeds, commonly need a long time to reach. Dividing our goals on some targets is done to get our goals, afterward it distributes in the unit of time which is shorter. This method is done by some work principles, at least the following are :
We need a process
We can not reach our goals in the same time. Indeed, the goals must be made as stair and we climb it one by one. We must be made it even though these processes can not be done harder. When we do it hurried, commonly, we become the untidy person and we will fail.
Priority Principle
Anything that we do by process need the priority principle. Because we can not reach everything that we want in one time. Therefore we must be dividing it in some unit of steps. But to identify where do we get the first step ?, what is the first step ?, and why do we do it first ?, we need to use the priority concept.
This concept teaches that something done for the first time is closer with our ability to do it and the goals in our life than others.
Balance Principle
This concept teaches that to reach every progress we can not sacrifice the other aspects in our life. We must keep our life on balance principle, balance of world and akhirat, material and spiritual, knowledge and action, ruh and physical, mind and heart, carrier and family, and the last are personal and social life.
Continually Principle
This concept teaches that one thing needing to keep for getting our goals is constantly work. It means we have to work continually to get those goals.
Constantly work is influenced by continually of our spirit and motivation. This principle believes that a great success is a combination of some unit of successes. As we know, water can plerce the stone when it drips the stone constantly.
Momentum Principle
We must have believing principle. Unfortunately, sometimes outside condition or situation of ourselves creates a momentum to do a big jump in our life and overlooked the steps arranged before. This momentum come suddenly and we have never been thinking and tried to get it before. If you get this moment, you must take it.
When we distributed our goals in the unit of times, therefore we must have tried to learn how to begin our life planned before ?, how to begin our life with a clear manner ?, and how to begin our life with a mechanism and rule ?. the most confusion in our life was caused by the activities that we done were out of planning, and the last are out of manner and rule that we made before

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begini prosesnya,

ngga gampang sebetulnya buat saya 'mengeluarkan'..
tapi ya dicoba lah..pelan pelan mungkin bisa,kalo sekarang hari ini tepatnya,ditanya..syifa apa kabar? -jawabnya,cukup. iyaa...
ngga nyambung emang,tapi gimna lagi..sekarang keadannya masih dikuasain sama ego,
mungkin didukung dgan blom adanya aktifitas yg bermakna sekarang ini,dirumah juga ndirian.jadi lebih seringnya pikiran negative yg lebih dominan.
ibaratnya kaya anak yg belom siapnya mentalnya suruh naik sepeda,,naik sepeda aja masi jatoh jatoh..tapi egonya pengen naik motor.belom seimbang.kadang aku uda suka ngerasa cukup sensitif-padahal engga sama sekali.ngga peka.mungkin memang bnar apa kata orangtua tadi siang yg buat saya rasanya sesek lagi,semuanya harus dirubah.mungkin aku kurang berserah diri.
sekarang jalannya bgini,dan ini bukan kebetulan..harus segera disadarkan memang,kalau yg bgini ini..walaupun engga sama sekali sejalan sama hati kita -yg hakikatnya,butuh rasa kepuasan atas diri sendiri,tapi dridulu aku seingnya merasa..kalo apa yg aku jalani ini,ngga pernah selaras sama ati..tapi ya dikembalikan kalo ini orangtua yg bicara..yah,manut..
mungkin misterinya belum keliatan.namanya juga misteri.tapi gimna caranya saya ini hidup?biar terbuka matanya.hatinya.pikirannya.bukan stagnant slama ini.yg ngejalani semuanya ini sbagai formalitas belaka.tanpa ada sense nya.
coba diterima.-saya coba untuk tarik nafas yang panjang...

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Sebelumnya trimakasih banyak skali untuk bang ziyad khalid, yg telah berkenan memberikan tumpangan untuk kami, para pelanconagn ini. knpa saya menyebut itu? karna saya merasa saya ksini dgan tujuan yg jelas--namun, akhirnya belum dan tah knapa belum juga klihatan jelas. jelas skali, hal ini tak pernah terbayangkan di pikiran saya.. ktika jadinya harus seperti ini.. halhal yg membuat saya berkonflik dgan mamah,, hal yg sangat tidak saya harapkan. untuk mba martha octavia.. soothankful.. dan untuk Cumba juga.. yg jujur..s aya sampe merasa,yg saya bawa ini..bukan apa yang di hati saya,bukan kepala saya, bukan diri. dan mungkin, bukansayabanget. ada apa sih,,,sama saya.,, cum.cum.

Allah...maafkan hambamu ya Allah....yg jdi justru sering melalaikanMu disaat sepperti ini..ya Allah..bri saya ksempatan untuk ikhlas..

skarang lagi sedih bgt...ntah siapa yg bisa ngerti,saya ngga tau.saya cuma pgen ini keluar aja...

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